Parental custody for unmarried parents in The Netherlands: FAQs

This article answers some frequently asked questions we are regularly asked about parental custody and paternity in The Netherlands for unmarried parents.
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This article answers some frequently asked questions we are regularly asked about parental custody and paternity in The Netherlands for unmarried parents.

In The Netherlands, joint custody requires both parents’ consent to apply for a child’s passport. If one parent is uncooperative or unreachable, judicial consent can be sought to bypass this. The process varies for applications made domestically versus from abroad, necessitating legal advice in contested cases. Starting early is essential.
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The Netherlands facilitates both marriage and civil partnerships for heterosexual and same sex couples. A civil partnership is also known as a registered partnership (‘geregistreerd partnerschap’) In The Netherlands. This article discusses how to dissolve civil partnerships and the legal consequences of ending the partnership.

The Dutch government indexes all maintenance / alimony obligations in line with inflation every year. In 2026, the maintenance increase will be 4.6 %.

In The Netherlands, if a child is deemed at risk, child protection services (CPS) can be called in. This can range from voluntary help to forced interventions. However, it is a stubborn myth that the authorities take children out of their homes easily. This article examines the role of different partsRead more

In a previous blog we discussed some of the difficulties of dividing foreign pensions after a divorce in The Netherlands. In two recent cases the Dutch courts highlight the need to assess each pension individually for a fair division of foreign pensions.

You are paying maintenance to your ex-partner, but they do not want to work. What legal action can you take to reduce maintenance?
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This blog deals with the tricky question whether a spouse can forfeit spousal maintenance in The Netherlands due to bad behaviour.
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The Dutch government indexes all maintenance / alimony obligations in line with inflation every year. Another big increase of 6.5 % has been announced for 2025.

What if the biological parent is not a feature in the children’s lives but your new partner is? Sometimes after a divorce the other parent disappears and is not there to make the important decisions and a new partner is the ‘Dad’ in the children’s lives. Or the biological parentRead more